There are many great and wonderful people in the church, and the real evil about the church is that it harms those great and wonderful people. She was expecting me to break up with her, like all previous guys she's been into have done. I have no idea if he stayed. I'm not going to break up with her because of her religion, but if we can't come to some kind of understanding about what we'd do with kids After reading every page of that CES letter I am fully aware this religion is a complete fabrication. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc.
And after years of this struggle, will your love for him and desire to avoid the hassle cause you to reduce your activation. I'm quite willing to take you at your word, but my guess is that academia had nothing to do with your ex being immature. Anyways, after I was temporarily "crazy" during my masters degree studies, my husband and I began reading the book: I think we had been too busy to invest in our relationship, and in the book were reminded of how much we needed to work for our relationship. If you have a literal belief that you need to have a temple marriage to go to the celestial kingdom, you will always keep a secret desire to convert your spouse. It all depends on the girl. It is highly likely that she will pressure you to convert, and if you resist, she may resent you for being the barrier to her being sealed to her children. The point is that there are way too many people talking in this thread as if they have some sort of psychic knowledge a stone in a hat, perhaps. I've been holding out, mostly contentedly, for a time when we could appreciate each other as unique individuals. Would she be okay with never being married in the temple. You should certainly still date even if you are not looking for a marriage partner.
But when my oldest daughter hit 12, the lessons started to have one major theme: This is what girls are told should be their primary goal. In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. I really fell that its time for me to move on. We have been together since his second year of med school so I have gone through step one and step two and all the shelf exams that were taking up his time, now I have to do the 80 hours thank God for the cap and usually he works more than that Good luck to all of you and I know we will all make it. Yes, thank you for your support Autumn. If they believe their religion, they will ultimately cause you pain and disappointment. It's a foolish dream I suppose. There are many good things.
It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage. There's definitely strength in kindred spirits. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. Thanks for springing that one on me OB. My husband is finishing up residency and is never around.